Choosing Not To Work
I was just talking with my girlfriend about how she has encountered varying instances of judgment since she decided, at the age of 27, to stop working. She is a very intelligent, freethinking individual with a Masters in Social Work. However, when presented with the means to stop working (read: producing), she began to question why she should. Six years after choosing not to work, criticisms that she’s “wasting her potential” or “not doing her fair share” have not subsided. Not coincidentally, she is the happiest person I know.
Her story makes me curious about something. Why do people feel such a strong need to produce and consume? Those who choose not to participate in the production/consumption process, or at least refrain from participating in it to some degree, frequently deal with having negative labels assigned to them. If you don’t work, you’re not “lucky,” you’re “lazy.” If you don’t spend, you’re not “discerning,” you’re “cheap.” But where do these labels come from?
I think the most logical answer to that question is to say that these labels have been passed down through the generations. They have survived because so few people have paused to ask if they’re still necessary. Human evolution depends on teamwork for survival. The earliest humans had to “do their fair share” to ensure that they, and the rest of their tribe would survive. Wealth was so limited that no one was afforded the luxury of choosing not to participate in the process of production, which really is nothing other than the creation of wealth.
But today, that’s not the case. Some are wealthy enough that, from a survival standpoint, they have nothing to directly gain by producing. Many people in this situation still choose to produce. Just think of all the athletes, movie stars, and CEOs who make enough money, some of them in just a few weeks, to ensure that they would never have to “work” again. I put “work” in quotes for a reason. Most athletes and movie stars probably enjoy what they do. And as long as you enjoy what you do, then you’re not really working.
Others, however, do not enjoy what they do. But rather than save and invest every dime they earn, they sabotage themselves by creating children and making frivolous purchases that ensure they will need to keep “producing” for much of their life in order to survive.
Could it be possible that the negative connotations surrounding a young person’s decision not to produce is merely a byproduct of bitterness from those who have cornered themselves into needing to produce in order to survive? When you’re neck-deep in debt with mouths to feed, you do have to work!
If you ever choose not to participate in this process, just know that you have my utmost respect and deepest apologies for whatever judgment you encounter. It takes a lot of guts to stare the world in the face and ask “why?” Thanks to my girlfriend for teaching me that lesson by example.
Her story makes me curious about something. Why do people feel such a strong need to produce and consume? Those who choose not to participate in the production/consumption process, or at least refrain from participating in it to some degree, frequently deal with having negative labels assigned to them. If you don’t work, you’re not “lucky,” you’re “lazy.” If you don’t spend, you’re not “discerning,” you’re “cheap.” But where do these labels come from?
I think the most logical answer to that question is to say that these labels have been passed down through the generations. They have survived because so few people have paused to ask if they’re still necessary. Human evolution depends on teamwork for survival. The earliest humans had to “do their fair share” to ensure that they, and the rest of their tribe would survive. Wealth was so limited that no one was afforded the luxury of choosing not to participate in the process of production, which really is nothing other than the creation of wealth.
But today, that’s not the case. Some are wealthy enough that, from a survival standpoint, they have nothing to directly gain by producing. Many people in this situation still choose to produce. Just think of all the athletes, movie stars, and CEOs who make enough money, some of them in just a few weeks, to ensure that they would never have to “work” again. I put “work” in quotes for a reason. Most athletes and movie stars probably enjoy what they do. And as long as you enjoy what you do, then you’re not really working.
Others, however, do not enjoy what they do. But rather than save and invest every dime they earn, they sabotage themselves by creating children and making frivolous purchases that ensure they will need to keep “producing” for much of their life in order to survive.
Could it be possible that the negative connotations surrounding a young person’s decision not to produce is merely a byproduct of bitterness from those who have cornered themselves into needing to produce in order to survive? When you’re neck-deep in debt with mouths to feed, you do have to work!
If you ever choose not to participate in this process, just know that you have my utmost respect and deepest apologies for whatever judgment you encounter. It takes a lot of guts to stare the world in the face and ask “why?” Thanks to my girlfriend for teaching me that lesson by example.